Her Underwear were under his bed and I know they are hers, we narrowed it down. He lied about them dating while we were not seeing each other but I caught him in a few lies so he had to confess. I dont care that they fooled around because i was sleeping with someone else as well (but i didnt tell him everything) I had let it go and continued dating him even though his coworker that knows them both said shes pretty sure they slept together, I basically just want a confession so I can get closure. How do I tell if he is lying? and how do I get him to confess? I love him and he loves me but when i asked him about it his voice got high pitched and he crossed his arms and talked to me about it with the tv on so there wasnt much eye contact. he hasnt made any mistakes resently and things have been perfect but i dropped my phone and the panties are still under the bed!!!!! its been about 3 months since i first discovered them. I need a confession… his best friend that works with him thinks he did too but wont say why or how he knows. he also wont change the relationship status on fb and the girl blocked me after i messaged her, and she deleted him.