well.I was seeing this guy off and on for about a year and half. I met him on my job, I was a asecurity officer, he was a security supervisor a company I know longer work for, and I heard he recently got terminated. we broke up nov 2009, so from nov 2009-sept 2010, I mean he was prank calling my phone, sending people to stalk me, sending mail and stuff to my house,.So my crazy self, took this as “well maybne he misses me” so we get back together and I tell him I want to make it up to him, so he lays down rules, this happened in October 2010, he told me that I cannot come to his apartment, I cannot drive in his car, so i would have to go meet him at his job or he would drive to my house, but I would always drive my car.When we would go out, he would always say he has no cash, he would never want to use his debit card for some reason.He tells meHis baby mother lives downstairs, which I thought was a little weird,and the apartment she stays in is in his name, but he assured me that he working on buying a house for him and his son
. I got a little frustrated with him because sometimes when I would call or text him during the day he wouldnt call or text me back until he was at work which was after 5 o clock.and sometimes he would say “oh lets get togehter tommorrow or somthing” and he would just not call or anything until way afterwards and we had sex, he can never spend the night or stay long….so on Halloween I actually Itell him to just never contact me or call me its over, the following week I apologized and he ignores me texts and calls..so a week ago I sent him a facebook message, and he calls me the next day a few times and just holds the phone..so I tried this morning to call him, he ignores me, I sent him one text saying ‘Good morning, just thinking about you” no response, I ve been calling him several times. emailing him, texting him and everything, and I’m getting no response, I told him i loved him, I wished him a Hap[py thanksgiving, (no reponse)and now I’m getting to the point where I’m getting alittle sick and tired of being frustrated by his mixed signals…what should I do?I ‘m sooo sad and hurt, I cant stop crying…he just answered the phone, and said “Oh I’m busy I gotta go ” and hung up in my face…..but its so hard to forget about him because I love him , and I cant stop thinking about him, how do i really move on?
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I have been to his place a few times, ummm, BUT the weird thing was that it was when she was at work, or he couldnt stay long, and he was looking out windows, doors, it was weird only for an hour or two, and then he had to go home, which I recently found out that he stays exactly upstairs from his baby mother…and he says hes not with her, but he stays upstairs to keep an eye out on his son