because at 33 years old , compared to a lot , i dont have hardly any material possessions , but my small flat is starting to look ” cluttered ” because of the material possessions i do have .
mainly just ; an internet custom built computer that i had built for me in 2005 – a big crt old type television that i got from a charity shop , but it has a crappy picture – an old playstation 2 , a few games – about 20 decent music cds – a few old paperback novels and a couple of old hard backs.
its mainly plastic bags and cardboard boxes that clutter my flat, because i lack the furniture to store things in.
i dont have a wardrobe or cabinets or chest of drawers , so my cds , socks , few underwear, hats , bits and pieces etc are stored here and there in boxes and bags.
the clutter is quite depressing really . i cannot afford wardrobes etc either because i only live on benefits.
but neither do i want the flat that i live in to be too cluttered full of stuff and possessions , because say if i have to or want to move eventually ? – and they do say its best to travel light ?
also, i if i pass over , i dont want to leave to much information about me for anyone to gain access to or abuse , like diarys or notepads , when your time is up, i think its a good idea to destroy things like this or burn them ?
its hard because i have an obsessional disorder and paranoia that make me ”obsess” that i need material items in order to be happy , and that , items have to be perfect , so if a tiny bit of stitching is loose on an item of clothing – im compelled to buy a replacement of the same clothing until i buy a perfect item , without any flaws .
is there a way to look at it so i dont feel obsessed that items i buy have to be flawless & perfect ?
but neither do i want a lot of material items because i will just feel bogged down and disorganised – i find it difficult just to keep the flat i live in tidy , at the moment its very messy and it takes my 60 year old mother to visit me and tidy my flat for me .
so having more possessions / material items will just make it worse . i only live in a small flat.
in a small council estate , i eventually want to move ,but travel light , but at the same time are obsessed with buying more material items in order ” to be happy ” so what will i do ?
Do You Need To Have A Lot Of Material Possessions?
Will All Video Cards Work For My Computer Or Do I Have To Buy A Specific Type Of Card?
i have a custom built computer i have the nvidia geforce 8400gs graphics card and what im looking for is a better card because this one just doesn’t cut it for gaming( I usually play wow, Farcry, Gmod) and i have to put all those games on low setting just to even run them… so can i buy just any graphics card or does it have to be specific? AND if u guys need any info about my computer just tell me.
Which Games On The Iphone 4/ipod Touch 4 Have The Best Graphics?
Best games that maximize the Retina’s display? Thanks in advance 
If I Have An Ipod With Music Already On It And Download Itunes, When I Sync My Ipod Will It Delete My Songs?
If I’m not mistaken, when you sync an ipod to itunes it will erase everything on the ipod. So whatever is checked on the itunes youre syncing with will be put on yout ipod
Ipad, But I Don’t Have Wireless Connection?
I want to buy an Ipad. But in my apartment, there is no wireless connection. What should I do?
Do You Agree That All Teens In This Section Have One Thing In Common….?
We’re all lonely, stressed and depressed individuals who go to the computer for comfort….
Don’t take personally
Is It Safe To Delete Older Versions Of Software? I Have Java 6 Updates 20 And 23 – Can I Delete Update 20?
Is there a general rule, such as Never Delete Any Older Versions Of Any Software. Ever.
I Have A Blue Wallpaper On My Laptop Says My Pc Is Infected With Spyware…what Do I Do?
when I logged on my laptop today my wallpaper turned this blue color and said “WARNING! YOU’RE IN DANGER! YOUR COMPUTER IS INFECTED WITH SPYWARE! Then it goes on and talks about “all you do with computer is stored foreever in your hard disk…blah blah blahh. I need to get this off before my computer crashes and never turns on! PLEASE does anyone know any solutions to fix this and have my computer back to normal??? Any anti – spyware program out their that can help me find whats infected and get rid of it? PLEASE):
What Could Have Happened To My Computer?
So my computer broke, i guess. I came home to find it simply turn on, then go to a black screen that said something about a “disc could not be read, press ctrl alt delete to restart” and then I do so and it just does it again.
I have Avast, and Malwarebytes. I do a quick scan everyday. And they came up clean. But, my computer randomly has been acting slower while browsing the internet lately. (Though we have been having troubles with our internet connection)
what could have happened?
Have Colleges Raised Their Standards In The Past 29 Years By A Lot?
I ask this because my dad said he didn’t ace high school and back when he applied to colleges he was accepted to every college he applied to (UGA and GA Southern are two of them). To be more exact, he had some Cs in high school but excelled on the SAT.
He says if I want to go to a big college (not ivy league, btw) I shouldn’t worry about getting Cs and the time to start worrying would be if I bombed the SAT (which I take next year).
